Dear Love Guru,
Meghna
I’m attracted to my best friend’s boyfriend. And I think
he’s attracted to me. Whenever we all go out, he gives me these slide glances
and flirts with me. He’s tried to talk to me on the phone a few times but I’ve
pretended to be busy. I’ve never felt like this for anyone. What should I do?
Sinful,Meghna
Dear Meghna
The forbidden fruit always seems to be the most tempting and
is proven to be the most bitter. Don’t go down a road where you will hurt your
friend and make you feel lousy. It seems that he’s still trying to explore his
options while being with your friend. He might do the same when he’s with you!
If he breaks his relationship with your friend because his feelings aren’t
strong enough for her and then asks you out, you can think about going out with
him. But this can only be done after you’ve checked with your friend if it’s ok
and she won’t be hurt by it. It’s a long winding road but it’s one that will
keep everyone happy. Until they break up and she’s healed, I suggest you avoid
him and this group partying. A friendship is built over many years of
compromise, camaraderie, caring and bonding. To give that up for a whimsical
love affair would make you feel very guilty later. And if he truly loves you he
will wait till you’re ready to be with him. If he doesn’t you can try to find a
man outside the best friend pool.
3 comments:
You are so right. If he cheats on this girlfriend, it shows just how loyal he could be when he is with Meghna.
Who knows, maybe his girlfriend knows about these sneaky flirty glances. I would stay away.
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