Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Love Guru Advice: Lost that Sexual Feeling

Dear Love Guru,
I’ve been married for 12 years and feel that I’ve lost all sexual urges. I just don’t want it anymore. I’m 33. Am I becoming a nun?
Sexless,
Maria

Dear Maria,
No you’re not becoming a nun! You’ve probably had sex with just one man your whole life and are bored. This doesn’t mean you go out and find another man! It only means you need to try out new things. Apart from saying the regular things of buying sexy lingerie, lighting your bedroom with candles and using satin sheets, putting on soft music and feeling sexy yourself, I would advise to experiment a little more. Do read a bit of erotica, watch a few sensuous films, and get some toys to play around with. Ever tried it with wax, whipped cream, or champagne? Ever given a strip tease with Pussycat Dolls’ Buttons song in the background? Have you ever blindfolded him and done naughty things for arousal? Ever cooked with just an apron on and surprised him, or worn a sexy sari with a tube blouse and asked him to take you out for an impromptu dinner, or tied him to the bed with his office tie and kissed him passionately? You need to take the initiative to do fun things. Stop feeling shy! Tell him what you want and how he can help. Make sure you have sex at least three times a week! Do get back to vanilla sex after experimenting occasionally to have a normal married life. Now go rock his world!
 

4 comments:

astrologer said...

Your suggestion about the love is so impressive. Maria you should try it....
:)

Black Magic said...

Love means feeling, infatuation, attraction, care, being together, it may be single sided, it may be two sided, between the humans. So, these suggestions are quite well, you can apply this in your life.

World Famous Love Astrologer said...

Love is anyways nowadays changing its meaning but still wherever true love exists many problems exists too. You can easily remove the problems by the means of love vashikaran a kind of hypnotism to get the root of problems and clear the mess off your life.

vashikaranindia said...

Love is the beautiful feeling between two persons. But at the same time if some miss understandig takes place, they get separated. But this can be solve. The only solution is the to get your love back by vashikaran. Thanks for sharing.

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